It’s good to live in a society where you can dial 911 when you need help. You know that at some point, law enforcement, an ambulance or the fire department will show up ready to assist you in whatever ways they can. The only question you may have is, “What do I do until help arrives?”

Sometimes, you only have a few seconds to decide what you are going to do in an emergency situation, and those few moments can
mean the difference between life and death. In some life-threatening situations, you have the ability and responsibility to protect yourself, and you should take full advantage of your own right to safety and survival. There are many people who will be completely willing to take advantage of you if you let them. You need to be prepared for self-defense. Gun ownership and training in the use of that gun can be your answer.

Natalie Instructing a First Time Shooter - Photo By Jack Nischik

First, where do you start the search for the right gun? Don’t forget that one of the most important items to have in your personal arsenal is knowledge. Think about your goals and reasons for purchasing a firearm. Are you looking for a gun for yourself or your significant other? Some guns will fit a man better than a woman and vice versa. What do you want to accomplish if you have to fire your gun? Do you want to stop an intruder or attacker in his tracks? If that’s the case, you will want a gun that is accurate, a trait found in larger pistols. Do you want to carry your gun with you? If so, a smaller gun will be lighter in weight and easier to conceal, but remember that you will also need to acquire a concealed carry permit. Another issue to consider when purchasing a gun is the reliability of the firearm. You need your gun to work for you whenever the moment arises. Be open to arming yourself and your spouse differently so that you both feel comfortable using a gun. A great place to find guns for men and women are online auctions. It’s nice to know that someone has used the gun you are considering purchasing because they can give you the particulars and history before you buy it. Some auctions cater to both men and women, realizing that they will have different needs.

Another consideration when choosing a gun is the caliber. A smaller caliber will usually be faster and have greater accuracy in repeated firing, but will suffer in energy and force. A larger caliber has a tendency to damage the target more severely. When firing in self-defense, you will want to stop your target by inflicting enough damage. Keep in mind that some bullets do a better job of penetrating further into the target than others. It may be helpful to purchase your gun from a source where you can also purchase the needed ammunition. Again, go to an auction for a terrific selection in guns and ammunition. You will find variety and pricing that fits your needs and budget, and you will have the opportunity to shop on your own time and for your own needs.

After you’ve found the best gun for you, get the appropriate training. A great gun that fits you well cannot compensate for lack of training in how to use the gun at the right time and in the right place. Your gun can give you security once you’ve taken the time to learn about it. Don’t skimp on knowledge. You want your gun to save your life when you need it to, not get in the way. When you remember that your gun is for your protection and you are the one who is accountable for its use, you will be much closer to your goals of being a responsible gun owner who is capable of self-protection.

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About the Author: Tammy Anderson is a wife, mother, school teacher and gun enthusiast. She lives in Texas with her family.

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By Damon Thueson

50 Years of Experience… In 5 simple steps!

During my time as an instructor I have often been asked by students, “Which gun should I buy?” or… “What’s a good gun?” While attempting to answer those questions and reflecting on my own experiences, I realized that I had not come across any specific method or easy-step process on how to do so.  Pooling from those who know more than I do, and hearing “gun buying experiences” from many others, I then organized a 5 step process that anyone can use to purchase the correct gun for them, the very first time.

We are all different for sure, hand sizes and preferences vary, but until now I had never seen an unbiased method designed for the “new-comers”.  This method has had very positive feedback, for not only the inexperienced, but also from those who already have handguns.  It is something to consider when evaluating what you currently own or for assistance with your next handgun purchase.

The Essential 5 Steps on, “How to Buy a Gun Correctly.”

One must first understand that the two most important things to consider are: 1. Reliability, and 2. Comfort.  Realizing that both of these are the major points and that the 5 steps will answer both points throughout the process; for that is what the steps are centered around.

Step 1: What is the purpose of use for the gun?  What are you going to use it for?  Home defense, concealed carry, hunting, etc.  It is important to answer this question, because the caliber you choose to buy is affected by your purpose.  For example, home security purposes generally will use a larger round than concealed carry.  One may want a 1911 model or Taurus’s “Judge” due to its unique capabilities.  Whereas, carrying concealed, you may only prefer a 9mm or .380 for control and concealment.  Hunting is another ball game and I will not address it at this time.

Step 2: What caliber are you going to want?  You don’t have to land on just one caliber either, perhaps you should decide on at least two, until you get a better feel of exactly what you want. If you have not figured that part out yet, do not worry.  The caliber should be determined somewhat by the purpose for which the handgun will be used.  For example, women tend to carry the .380 (short 9), more than the 9mm or even the .40 cal.  I recommend that men should not carry anything less than a 9mm, unless it is for a backup or reserve protection, such as a Ruger LCP or Micro Desert Eagle or DiamondBack .380 on the ankle or some other place.  Some books say that one should carry the largest caliber they can reasonably handle, however I find that may depend on some other points of use as well.  I will cover that issue in the summary.

Step 3: Make a list of at least six manufacturers that have a great reputation for quality and reliability.  For example, Ruger, S&W, Glock, Springfield, Kimber, Colt, SigSauer, H&K, Taurus, Walther, etc. (not in any specific order of favor here);  all are very capable and have great reviews. This step will eliminate the stress of buying a gun that will be “problematic” during a heightened situation.  Cost may determine your ability to buy certain models, but rest assured that any of the products from these companies will work fine as long as they are maintained as any gun should be. This step will answer the “reliability” point mentioned previously.

Step 4: Put your hand on each gun.  Grip each, one after the other.  This step is KEY to purchasing the right way.  You will find that each one has a very specific feel, and only when you have handled each one, will your hand be able to distinguish the differences quickly and reliably.  There is no rush to buy a gun, but let the salesperson know that you are only looking and want to feel all of the different kinds of guns; take your time and get to where you know what feels good consistently. Take as much time here as you need to.  I had one student email me and recounted his 3 month long process, using these 5 steps… and he landed on the one that was consistently comfortable all the time.  Good Choice.  You may not need to take 3 months, as another of my students only took 3 hours, but each had what worked for them.  That is the point here.

NOTE: DO NOT get “talked into” certain brands.  No offense, but I find that “Glock” guys are pretty hard core, and many times I have seen a “newbie” choose a Glock simply because the salesperson “said so” only to find that they didn’t shoot as well, but had more comfort and shot better with a different gun entirely.  Glocks are great and have a great reputation, but so do others and perhaps that is not the gun for you after all. (Hopefully no hurt feelings there.)  Remember the list you have made, any one of the brands listed above will be reliable in a time of crisis. This step answers the “comfort” point previously mentioned.

Step 5: Now that you have a pretty good feel for what you want, or at least you should by this point, go find a good price (if that is possible).  I have found that some stores are pricier than others, and sometimes looking online locally, you can find a great deal as well.  If you are buying used, then make sure the gun is clean and well oiled.  Take the slide off and look for wear marks.  Ask the owner how many rounds have been through the gun.  If they say only about 100 rounds, but you see pretty good wear marks on the barrel and inside the gun, that seller is untruthful, so be careful.  When I bought my XD9 sub-compact, the gentleman said that his wife carried it and it only had about 200 rounds through it. Once I took it apart and looked for myself, I found his words to be true, plus I know that women do not shoot as much as men, so I figured that was true to begin with.  I got a great deal and I love the gun as well.  I knew as soon as I put my hand around it.  It just felt “right” as they say.  So for me, the XD is what I prefer.  Now read the manual and break it down and shoot it.  That is the best way to get to know your gun and safety first as always.

Here are a couple of summary notes:  If you can find a place that rents guns so you can shoot them first before you buy, then that is ideal.  It can be pretty costly, but it is a great way to get to know the overall feel of a gun before you actually buy one.  The only problem with doing this is that I find gun shops do not maintain their “rental guns” very well, and you may get a jaded opinion of a certain kind of maker simply because it was not cleaned as it should have been.  If you can find a friend with a good collection who will let you buy the ammunition and go shoot with you… that is a perfect way to decide before you buy as well.  Along with the 5 steps, you cannot go wrong doing this.

Consider, when deciding which caliber to buy, the following.  I am not a skinny guy, I am pretty stout and I can handle a larger caliber than the one I actually carry.  Remember that the bigger the caliber and the smaller and lighter the gun, your arms have to absorb the recoil of the gun.  This means that while carrying a larger caliber, you may shoot slower and your accuracy may be worse as well as your comfort level during a heightened situation.  You can never tell what will happen, or how your reaction will be during such.  Going to the range and obtaining that “muscle memory” will certainly help out, but you still never know for sure what will take place.

For example; shooting a 2” spread at 15 feet makes you feel great, but in a gun fight, force on force training is more likely to save your life.  I like to believe Chris Bird in his book, The Concealed Handgun Manual when he states that “shot placement” is really the most important aspect, and not knock-down power.  Now that does not mean I am going to carry a .22 just because it won’t kick at all on a good day and that I could hit a fly in mid air, but maybe scaling down on caliber will give you a more comfortable level of security.  Perhaps carrying a 9mm instead of a .40 cal may give you more accuracy, more comfort, less recoil, quicker response etc.  That may make all the difference in the world when confronted by some “no good SOB” in the middle of the street or at a restaurant somewhere.

I have had many students use these 5 steps when purchasing a gun for the first time; the feedback has been tremendously positive.  I hope you will find the same positive experiences in your pursuits… especially the “new-comers”.

Good luck and remember “P4”: Purchase a gun, Practice center mass, Protect yourself, family, others, PRAY you never have to use it!

Damon Thueson

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